Sunday, May 20, 2007


如何创造好心情

所谓压力,令人讨厌也令人耽溺,如果不把压力联盟个个击破,就会一直泡在压
力里。

有得多不如有得巧。 如果衣柜里都是适合你,会加分的衣服,你不需花太多时间,
就可以漂漂亮亮的出门,所节省的 "时间成本" 绝对值回票价。

找到一个好的时间,你会变成一块很好的吸水海绵。找到一个好的时间说话,别
人也比较听得进去。 别在精力耗弱时想不愉快的事情。

一个愿意快乐的人,不会僵在不快乐中动也不动。如果我们愿意快乐,从挫折的
污泥中也可以看到快乐的养分

当我发现自己的 "压力症状" 出现时,我会暂时脱离 "压力现场" 一下,不急者把事
做或把话说完,因为那时不管做什么,都不会做得太理想。

其实很多事我们可以做得有方法一点! 过程可以变得简单,目标可以更加明确。

懂得"施"的技巧得福报,"受" 得让施者开心的继续得幸福。 现代人的施与受, 必
须于人于己都不强迫才行。

用一张苦脸为人做事,做到一百分,可能会被扣到六十分。用笑脸为人做事,做
到八十分, 也可以得到一百分。

吴淡如


Postado Por: hucklebeary às 4:03 PM


Tuesday, May 15, 2007


快乐的人:

不是命运已注定谁比谁幸运。。。
也没有人的每一天都充满快乐。。。
他们会快乐是因为学会了把忧愁缩小把快乐放大
祝每个人都是快乐人。


Postado Por: hucklebeary às 6:25 PM


Monday, May 14, 2007


A long but meangingful poem, take time to read and digest

The Road To Success is Always Under Construction

Diplomacy is the art of letting someone else get your way.
Life is not no much a matter of position as of disposition.
The best vitamin for making friends, B-1.
If you don't care where you're going any road will get you there.

A pint of example is worth a gallon of advice.
He who throws mud loses ground.
Nobody raises his own reputation by lowering others.
Nothing ruins the truth like stretching it.

A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
Ideas won't work unless you do.
The future is purchased by the present.
One thing you can't recycle is wasted time.
Lost time is never found again.

A hard thing about business is minding your own.
Triumph is just "umph" added to try.
Caution is not cowardly, Carelessness is not courage.

He who forgives ends the quarrel.
Children need more models than critics.
Frogs have it easy, They can eat what bugs them.

The pursuit of happiness is the chase of a lifetime.
If the going gets easy you may be going downhill.
Dieters - People that are thick and tired of it.

Jumping to conclusions can be bad exercise.
The best labor saving device is doing it tomorrow.
A turtle makes progress when it sticks its neck out.
Failure is the path of least persistence.
Hard work is the yeast that raises the dough.
Patience is counting down without blasting off.

Have a backbone not a wishbone.
Some folks won't look up until they are flat on their backs.
If you want your dreams to come true, don't oversleep.

Friend - One who knows all about you and likes you just the same.
Money talks and often just says, "Good-bye".
Birds have bills too and they keep on singing.
Forbidden fruit is responsible for many a bad jam.

God's retirement plan is out of this world.
A good example is the best sermon.
The Ten Commandments are not multiple choice.
Well done! is better than, Well said!

Minds are like parachutes - they function only when open.
Live as you wish your kids would.
Swallowing your pride seldom leads to indigestion.
If you can laugh at it then you can live with it.
People don't fail, they give up.

When looking for faults use a mirror, not a telescope.
Smile, it takes only 13 muscles; A frown takes 64.
Kindness, a language deaf people can hear and blind can see.
Heaviest thing to carry - a grudge.

A smooth sea never made a skillful sailor.
A small leak can sink a great ship.
You can't direct the wind, but you can adjust your sails.

We lie loudest when we lie to ourselves.
Tact is the ability to see others as they wish to be seen.
A bad conscience has a very good memory.
Hug your kids at home - Belt them in the car.
One thing you can give and still keep - is your word.

A friend walks in when everyone else walks out.
If you must cry over spilled milk then please try to condense it.
Behavior is the mirror in which everyone shows their image.
Make friends before you need them.

It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.
The smallest good deed is better than the grandest intention.
Success is … more attitude than aptitude.
Our favorite attitude should be gratitude.

The greatest of all faults is to imagine you have none.
Too many of us speak twice before we think.
Some people develop eye strain looking for trouble.
Everyone has 20/20 hindsight.

The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.
It is much easier to be critical than to be correct.
Feed your faith and doubt will starve to death.

It is no crime not to be perfect.
If others have sinned you need not mention it.
No man knows less than the man who knows it all.

Patience carries a lot of wait.
One who lacks courage to start has already finished.
A quitter never wins, A winner never quits.
Action speaks louder than words but not nearly as often.

Break a bad habit - Drop it.
Don't learn safety rules simply by accident.
Failing to prepare We prepare to fail.
Past failures are guideposts for future success.

There is no right way to do a wrong thing.
There can be no rainbow without a cloud and a storm.
If your dreams turn to dust…vacuum.

Money is a good servant but is a cruel master.
Seek joy in what you give not in what you get.
Procrastination is the thief of time.

Success comes in cans Failure comes in can'ts.
Anger is one letter short of danger.
Greatest remedy for anger is delay.

2/3 of promotion is motion.
Having a sharp tongue can cut your own throat.
Of all the things you wear, your expression is the most important.

Author: Unknown



Postado Por: hucklebeary às 3:12 PM


Friday, May 11, 2007


Its was a rainy evening at ponggol beach, missed out the sunset again... hmm, perhaps weather changes according to our moods, when we are moody everything around us seems to be moody as well... Should a beach be a romatic place or a place to look for solace? Perhaps it depends on the mood of individual...



Attended a reflective thinking workshop today, the trainer showed us this picture which I find its quite meaningful



Do you think is this a sunrise or sunset?
Well, it all depends on an individual. For an optimistic person it would most likely be a sunrise, on the other hand it could be a sunset for a pessimistic person. So the important thing i am trying to bring across is: "to be a happy person, one must have a positive mindset, without it life is a misery." One must learn to let go, when things are not meant to be then its not meant to be no point holding on... Happiness is waiting for us at the end of the tunnel if only we were willing to walk through the dark to find happiness... To be happy is a choice not a wish. Life is short, learn to cherish what you have before your eyes cause we have been focusing on what we don't have for too long and hurting the people who loves you...... People around you once gone is forever, we will never get them back, so don't live to regret, there are things that one can change if they want to.


Postado Por: hucklebeary às 10:22 PM


Tuesday, May 08, 2007




Postado Por: beaNie 豆豆 às 11:06 PM


Friday, May 04, 2007


A year may mean nothing to someone but to me its filled with memories that's hard to erase, be it sweet or bitter... is a year sufficient enough to determine whether one 's meant for another? Am i being difficult or in denial? Is it time to part? Have we come to the last episode? Is parting the best solution? Maybe its time to come to my senses, back to reality... A ship will have to leave the dock someday...Every dock is just another resting place before moving on to the next destination... perhaps one should not hang onto things that are not meant to be theirs... Who is the one being selfish? I don't have the answer...i am confused...


Postado Por: hucklebeary às 5:24 PM


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